婚礼歌手

“你是否爱一个人并不体现在她怎么看你 而在于她面前 你的表现如何.”

大致就是这么说的

很有道理

你和你的爱人是否相配

就要看你们是否能够在对方面前表现自如

不自知的将自己最优秀的一面展现给对方

那是一种吸引力

就是为什么在你爱人面前你总是很迷人

那就是爱.

that's my opinion.

 

剧中主角的职业让我觉得很温暖

和中国不同

他就是担当着婚礼司仪的职责

一个好的职业是不是就应该取决它的薪资呢？

或者是这份职业为自己、为他人带来的幸福指数?

有时,人的心灵总是和自己的行为背道而驰

男主角也迷惘过

为了money

他到wall street找工作

然而他在面试时的表现仍然跟着自己的心

他什么都不会

他所拥有的一切都和音乐有关

其实音乐就是他的货币...

有时 钱确实是衡量优秀与否的标准

然而 钱并不能代表一个人的价值.

现在不是流行评比痛苦指数么？

有车有房

幸福却远了

可怜的在这个钢筋丛林里奔波的都市人

争着抢着把自己关到贷款买房的圈子里

好可怜. 也好无奈.


看了上映日期 已经是十年前的电影了

不仅是部好电影

所有的插曲都经久不衰...

力荐

     看到这部片的最后，心里一下失望到极点。那首动听的歌，那个幸福的吻，那些陶醉的笑容却在最后给我的心狠狠地泼了一盆冷水。
  “和你一起变老”这句歌词来得太简单太迅速了吧。罗比和琳达青梅竹马的痴情，洛伦与茱莉亚一起四年的感情就在一瞬间破裂粉碎，而且都在最关键的结婚时刻。然后琳达和罗比顺理成章地在众人的支持和帮助下直接走进了婚姻殿堂！我没有被他们美好的结局而感动，或许是我的浪漫细胞太少了，又或者我太天真了，一直相信爱情没有那么容易破碎，特别是一起多年的情感。我实在接受不了罗比在和琳达分手后唱出那首撕心的歌曲后立刻对琳达产生了深厚的爱意，那么他是真痴情还是假痴情呢？要知道，他唱那首歌时，连最现实的与罗比抢饭碗的另一个婚礼歌手都躲在帘子后面说他疯了。这感情真的可以在这么短时间内彻底消逝，这痛苦真的可以在这么短时间内完全抚平？而琳达在本该和洛伦结婚的日子却与罗比结成夫妇，这会不会太愕然了。不过，或许这就是电影，这就是完美的爱情喜剧。只是换一个角度，关注起那些配角的时候便发现现实还在。
    最喜欢看到的是那个满脸皱纹，瘦骨嶙峋的老奶奶露西，她太可爱了！上歌唱课，练哑铃，唱hip-hop，讲她的婚前性行为，拿罗比开玩笑......每次她的出现都让我那样舒服开心。因为她的开朗活泼，因为她的热情可爱，因为她的专一痴情。结婚50年了，她还是那么认真的用肉丸请罗比给她上课教她唱歌，好让她能在结婚50周年纪念日的时候一展歌喉，就为让她的老伴知道她依然如此地深爱他。这是整部片最让我感动之处了。永恒而忠贞的爱情在那深情的歌声，唯美的歌词，脉脉含情的牵手诠释得淋漓尽致，让人陶醉。
     导演大概极力想塑造永恒纯洁爱情的浪漫美好。却在开始和结局之处露出了让人不解的矛盾：究竟爱情是像薄纱一样不堪一击还是可以永恒而美好？

You'll know when you meet the right girl,because it's not about how you feel about her,it's how she makes you feel about yourself.

   After Robbie was abadoned by Linda at the wedding,he laid in the bed in the basement,and he said to Sammy:"I don't have anything to offer."
   Then he met Julia.He finally got something to offer to that girl.Actually,Robbie was helping other people in town all the time.He is a wedding singer,who bring joy to guests;He has a dream as a rock star and is talented at writting songs.
   He is an orphan.Mom and Daddy left at ten.He has been hurt.But he is the one who always make other people happy.I think that's noble. Many people who got hurt grow to be cynical and defended,self-involved,and lose faith in love. Robbie thinks in a positive way,and he still hold hope for true love,before the wedding day.He got mad,sad,felt deeply betrayed,and began to doubt himeself as a wedding singer and even a helper without any payment. We know how much love can hurt."Take an instance,me." When Robbie sang that angry song"I used to love but it was a joke and I want a bullet shot in my head"in the hall in front of Julia,I think that's the moment Julia fell in love with him.So did I.I usually into guys with hurt and a high-esteem.I guess that's the self-rescue part,you will cure by rescuing somebody else hurting. Robbie met Julia,who looked him in the eye that we all read the message"You are so special to me".And Robbie went to pursue Julia at the last moment.
   I think that's the difference between men and women.When a man get hurt,he will move to save another girl in need,so as to cure himself and felt his worth once more.But when a woman gets hurt,she wouldn't get cure by loving another man,c'z that's not appropriate for a moman to be active and take into the" rescuer" role.She is espected to stay there in the blue and wait someone to show up and save her. It's getting helpless.And I hate myself.Anyway,Julia is not the girl like me.I won't let my life depend on someone else to save me,which by the way,romance only happens in the movie.
   I'm not Julia,and I can't be Robbie who meets Julia and be treasured and he earned his welfare by taking some moves.He is a man.That's what man should do.I don't know if I ever gonna meet some guy who is attracted by my loneliness and misery because there's anything else I can offer,to the opposite sex. I have a kind of pretty face,and a not so perfect body,a great listen when I concentrate,a hard-working student but that ambitiousness is not appreciated for most men. I learned self-doubt after the hurt by love,and become someone who is not me.And now I don't like the way I am.I had a fierce fight in the inner world every moment in the past few days.I even despise myself for thinking so negtively.Is there anyone who can understand the complicated contradiction I've been suffering?
   You might disgrace me but I'm the one losing faith in true love.I believe there's true love,I just don't believe that would happen on me.I'm also cursed for not helping other people,but I got my own ways to get out,by pulling myself higher and higher.A tough way,but at least it works some time.It isn't working now,and I'm back to that needy,desperate coward again.Hi me,all I'm thinking is that I don't deserve to have a guy to treasure me,looking me in the eye like saying"You are the most beautiful thing in the world.",someone who holds me and say"everything will be allright." I would like to do anything for him,too.But no,there's none,all me.I'm a loser.That's what they called. If love was red,I must be color-blind.
   There is tons of great speech you can throw on me,like"if you try you will find",or "don't feel inferior,you are not that bad",or"be yourself and good things will follow"...that doesn't help really.
    I'm going to live,whatever.Whether to success or lose in the end,it won't improve anything to self-esteem.I still gonna to abase myself for such struggle in vain.For not feeling confident in prior,for having so much contrary thoughts in head.That's me,and that's not cool.
    Perfectism,they call it.It rules all over me.Very mean superego.Mother never loved her much and daddy never kept in touch,that's why she shies away from human affection.
    I'm the kid in emptiness,like Robbie.He finds away by writting songs and helping people.I find my way lifting up.We are both innocent children abandoned by parents.Why do they do that to us? I know I'm not the only one,and there are more even worse. The absense of parents definitely effects on children's development,and I don't know how many of them has made a way out.I still went back to the homeless little girl sometimes.
    Can I help ? Maybe some day I will.I will.
Be careful,don't be hurt by love.But sometimes it's just destiny.You can't run off,it will chase you.Eat you in and out.
    "I'm so in love with you."Wish someday I could say that.Wish I have the strength to make it till that day.

让人相当无语的一部片子，温情一般般，浪漫谈不上，也没有任何搞笑的成分，情节僵硬，大家都像没进入状态一样,包括Ross的老妈，汗。而且看到一半才发现原来这部片以前竟然看过，能让人这么没有印象，无语。如果这部片是为了6年后两人再次合作的《初恋50次》预热，那没话说。

这是一部轻松主题的电影，关于如何将一个简单的爱情故事拍的新鲜而动人，本片具有相当的参考价值。领衔主演的是Adam Sandler和Drew Barrymore，他们的精湛演出使本片在无数以婚礼为背景的好莱坞影片中显得别具风味。而且由于影片内的场景都取自我们熟悉的八十年代，片中再现和戏仿了许多八十年代常见的
看这部电影的时候,是该片上映的第十年头,看到亚当的发型第一个反应是这是哪个年代的?抱着这是八十年代的片笃定的信念看完了电影(没想过这是98年的电影),先觉得奇怪那时候亚当和德鲁就这么老了?然后又受里面的美式特有的温馨吸引,觉得这很动人